American Gourmande

How do you blog?

September 23, 2009 · 15 Comments

Greetings ya’ll!

Hope you’re having a fine Wednesday. I’m going to postpone the post I oringinally planned (don’t worry I haven’t forgotten about that giveaway!) and sidestep here for a second for a call for advice. I am at a major turning point with American Gourmande, and I need to decide which direction I want to take this blog. I think that this is a subject that we can all relate to as bloggers and readers, as some of you have shut down your blogs or written posts apologizing that you feel the need to pull back the reins on your blogs. I hope to ignite open discussion and that this post will be helpful to all!

First a little background. I started reading blogs as a New Year’s Resolution. I wanted to become healthier, but msot importantly cultivate a better self image. I was tired of wasting so much mental energy on my appearance. I wanted more confidence. Reading blogs gave me a complete 360. I saw what healthy eating habits and exercise regimens entailed (including eating far more than I ever would have guessed) and read about many of you fabulous women and how you celebrate yourselves inside and out. It was a major turning point for me.

After reading so many blogs I decided to “de lurk.” I wanted to contribute to the community that gave so much to me. Thus American Gourmande was born.

I’ve experimented with different blog styles and voices, whatever floats my boat at the time based on what I’m going through. In Belgium I detailed day to day happenings, as I wanted to show how I strive for moderation and balance while still enjoying the study abroad experience. Now my blog is focusing more on my marathon training and any musings on my eats and how they relate to my life.

I’ve been wanting to generate more blog traffic, which I’m afraid to admit because I don’t want to be accused of being too commercial. But honestly, who wants to spend so much effort on a blog that doesn’t get read? I thrive on the feedback I receive from my readers, and I want to expose my blog to its fullest potential. As I research more on increasing blog traffic, I feel incredibly overwhelmed. Many sites recommend testing out keywords for ultimate search hits, which sounds like an exhausting process. I don’t want to nit pick every word I publish! I love reading blogs, but I don’t want it to become a chore. I usually love reading blogs with my meals, it’s like reading a magazine or newspaper. I love the written word. But lately it feels like a chore ah! so many posts in Google Reader! must get to reading and commenting if I want to make my presence in blog world known! Now, reading blogs feels like work, which I want to avoid when I enjoy my meals. I genuinely want to give feedback to posts if I feel like I can contribute something, but I don’t want my words to become empty just so I can get something said like I love raspberries! How would that further someone else’s blog?

On the other hand, I need to think about blog traffic if I am going to utilize my blog for Team in Training fund raising. Having a blog is a huge resource, and I want to support TNT to my fullest potential. I also have an interest in keeping my blog for the long term–I am considering studying nutrition in conjunction with political science as I am interested in a career in health policy and advocacy, a topic I find fascinating. A health related blog helps many bloggers further their careers.

But I need balance. From this view point I can see myself getting out of control–constantly reading blogs, even the ones that don’t necessarily motivate me (and if they don’t, what’s the point in reading? Do you read a book that you don’t like if you don’t have to?), thinking about posting, posting, generating more blog traffic. Blogging is only one facet of my life, and while I have a little extra time to dedicate to the blog now I cannot maintain the same levels of blog work when I go to school full time and begin other activities.

How do you view your blog? Are you concerned with generating blog traffic? How do you participate in the blog world without being consumed by it? Has blogging interfered with other aspects of your life?

Lately I hear this constant buzz of chitter chatter in my head at all times, and I know that I cannot tolerate its presence 24/7. I could really use some feedback, let me know what you guys think! You don’t even need to have a blog, if you simply read but have thoughts of your own, let me know! De lurk yourselves!

A toute a l’heure!
Maya

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15 responses so far ↓

  • Emily // September 23, 2009 at 11:52 am | Reply

    Hi Maya! Nice to “meet” you. :-)

    Were you by chance referring to the Ancel Keys study? Healthy young men were subjected to starvation conditions and had many psychological effects.

    As for blog traffic, I do think about it a lot. I think it’s important to find a niche and audience for your blog. I blog because I feel like I have so much nutrition information to share from my classes and research, and I feel selfish if I don’t share it. I want to make a difference in someone’s life, somewhere around the world, so I keep writing.

    I’m glad you stopped by, and hope you come back again soon! I’m really jealous of all of your European adventures!

    • mayapamela // September 23, 2009 at 12:03 pm | Reply

      I am referring to that study! Such an interesting post you wrote.

      I think the hardest part of my finding a niche is that I have so many interests and they shift all the time. Right now my interest is learning more towards marathon trianing, which speaks to the fitness crowd, but I also love sharing my Hawaii travels and meal ideas, which speaks more to foodies. Hopefully I’ll find a way to balance it soon.

  • Katie // September 23, 2009 at 4:08 pm | Reply

    Obviously I want my blog to be read. I take pride in it. However, for me, it is such a creative outlet that I think I will do it for no one, or for 100s of readers. Whatever the case may be. I think that attitude relieves some of the “pressure” to work on increasing traffic. If I’m doing what I love – and loving what I do – it will show and people will read and enjoy my blog. That is my 2 cents.

  • lilveggiepatch // September 23, 2009 at 5:01 pm | Reply

    I’m so glad you de-lurked! You’re such a nice asset to the blogging community.

    As far as how I “view” my blog, I’d originally started it as a cooking blog! I cooked a lot more in college than I’ve been able to recently (which is ironic, considering how much work I had!). Now I guess it’s become more of a “lifestyle” blog, and it’s grown, but the most important thing for me is to keep on having fun with it.

    • mayapamela // September 23, 2009 at 10:34 pm | Reply

      Even though your blog would no longer be considered strictly a cooking blog, I get tons of inspiration from it! I think that describing your meals and how you compose them is just as valuable as recipes, if not more so, because it’s more practical for day to day life. I could probably use a good guide to building a delicious sandwich more than a recipe for something I may only make once. This is to say, I love your blog and it definitely inspires me in the kitchen!

  • janetha // September 23, 2009 at 5:51 pm | Reply

    good post, definitely brought up some good points. i sometimes feel bad if i don’t end up loving a blog i check out, a lot of people ask me to check out their blog but i read over 100 blogs religiously because i LOVE the content/writer.. and so if i am not into it i am not going to read it just out of being nice. that sounds bad, i didn’t mean it to be! but i read blogs to learn, relate, grow.. all that. i write my blog to keep me in line and as an outlet to ramble about silly shit. i honestly would still do it daily if the only reader was my mom! and that WAS my only reader for the first couple months.. but i loved it just the same. i continue to write my blog to stay accountable but all the friends i have made, including you, are totally worth the effort! i think i have been reading you since you started your blog? and i love it and you! xo

    • mayapamela // September 23, 2009 at 10:31 pm | Reply

      This is probably one of the sweetest comments I’ve received! It’s nice to know I’ve had a follower with me since the start, you’re the best Janetha! I definitely need to keep perspective on my blog, much like what you described. I want to read blogs to learn, relate, grow too, it should never be a chore. I would hate to lose the fun of it. Thanks for reminding me!

  • leslie // September 24, 2009 at 4:17 am | Reply

    i had a similar experience to you with blog reading and wanting to participate. it took me a long time to start, i needed to become comfortable with myself and what i ate first, but once i reached a healthier place, i knew i wanted to give back to all the people who helped me.

    when i started i thought i had to comment all the time on everyone’s posts. that quickly became exhausting and i realized it’s not about just leaving a comment, it’s about contributing. i have many blogs in my reader, and i keep up with most of them regularly, but i don’t always comment. when i have something to add, or the post made me think, or something along those lines, then i leave a comment. i’ve talked to some other bloggers about that too, and that seems to be the consensus. of course we all love comments, but i think we all know the time it takes to comment on every single post – it just isn’t practical!

    as for how i view my blog, i started it thinking it would mostly be about sharing meals and healthy thoughts. it turned into a creative outlet and i love love love that about it. it’s become a place for me to grow creatively in terms of writing – both storytelling and just sharing thoughts – and in terms of photography. i like to think of it as a blog about balance, which gives me the freedom to write on many topics, as long as they hold the common theme, whether it be a new recipe or thoughts on body image or thoughts on travel – it all ties together. it’s fun to see how it develops and what people respond to.

    i’m writing a novel here – but i think it comes down to the fact that you need to do what makes you happy. i read your blog because i love your worldly perspective and relate to many of the thoughts you share. so i think you’re doing just fine. :) i wish i knew more about building blog traffic – guest posting helped me a bit!

    • mayapamela // September 24, 2009 at 7:56 am | Reply

      Thanks for such a thoughtful response! I will definitely keep in mind that it’s best to comment on blogs if I have truly have something to say, otherwise it isn’t worth it. I have to make my words valuable! Seeing a blog evolve is definitely fun, I haven’t been blogging for very long but I feel like it’s already changed so much. I love yours, it’s one of my favorites (truly)!

  • leslie // September 24, 2009 at 4:17 am | Reply

    longest comment EVER. lol!

  • Jessica (jesslikesithot) // September 24, 2009 at 7:29 am | Reply

    Hey girl! Just do what you ENJOY doing!! I remember that feeling of “having to” comment on everyone’s blog in order to get some traffic. But honestly, check in on the ones you love and post as often as possible!! I go through weeks where I post every other day, then weeks where I can’t post at all. That’s life, I can’t control it!

    If generating the traffic becomes a chore, then it’s not even worth it, right?? Your blog is great, and I know that you have a lot of readers, whether they’re commenting or not!! Have a great day girl, xooo

    • mayapamela // September 24, 2009 at 7:54 am | Reply

      What kind words! Thanks Jess! I will definitely continue doing this blog for me, it’s fun and it’s what I enjoy doing, and I plan on keeping it fun. Thanks again.

  • Jackie at PhamFatale.com // September 24, 2009 at 11:14 am | Reply

    I agree. Just blog about what you like doing. You inspire other people. Blogging about my every day cooking is my way to share what I’m passionate about and love doing the most. If it becomes a burden, your readers will feel it. I always get reminded by my girls. We have to keep it fun. You go girl, keep up the great work!

  • Mamiton // September 25, 2009 at 6:27 am | Reply

    1. thanks for “outting me” dear (about the shrieking that is)
    2. as you editor-in-mom, I must say it’s “room after a Costco RUN” not “room”
    3. I love your readers too. If any of them ever find themselves in Maryland, I want them to know they are invited to dinner. Not as good as your cooking, of course, but…
    xxoo

    • mayapamela // September 25, 2009 at 6:39 am | Reply

      Aww that’s sweet I’d definitely meet up with some of my readers if they’re in Maryland or if I’m where they live. And I took your side with thunderbirds I see why you’re freaked out now!

      Thanks for the shoe offer but I’ll check out a store near me we have a lot f good running stores around because people in Oahu are pretty outdoorsy

      Sent from my iPhone

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